That is true. You don't ever want to request not to get someone. Then all officials will hold it against you.
But I do agree, you have to adjust to the calling. The officials in Tennessee(for the most part) are not very good. There are some good ones. But it has been that way and always will be. Why? You can't get officials to stop their real jobs to go and train to get paid $65.00 per night. Until TSSAA requires more of these guys, or until they get paid only to ref, there will be this problem.
I don't like it. And the officiating drives me NUTS!!!!! But, that's just the way it is.