Good decision making doesn't magically appear on your high school graduation. Some have it early and some never have it. To say the parents, many who have their own inner needs and motivations, always know best is just plain silly. I won't presume to label a child without knowing the motivations behind their decisions. I was just asking if anyone knew the motivations of the two players, who I thought had huge upside potential, in quitting the team and they were attacked. What the H$%#?
High caliber people in their field, whatever that may be, quit things for thousands of reasons. Again, I will NOT presume to label them without knowing the facts.