Most reasons stated can be dealt with. When girls play at home, boys play away game. It would take just a little bit of creativity to resolve most of these stated issues. The biggest issue that I can see is practice facilities. Might have to use local facilities off campus. We have Fridays to use in the spring as an additional day to host games (for refereeing scheduling issues). Will there be issues with the field conditions, yes there always is. Solution - over seed. Most football fields in the fall are dirt by mid season. Asking the best girls' players to play both high school and elite level select ball, which they will do because they love representing their high school, is insane. We have four players that practice twice a week after high school practice and practice on weekends plus add additional games on the designated weekends. Injuries will accumulate as I know they already have for some. Coaching a team dealing with these issues is ridiculious. Resting girls that come back exhausted from extra play requires bending rules for the exceptional player - never a good thing for team chemistry.
When thinking about the sport's best interest, I don't see how this can't be a serious option to consider. We don't want our best players to leave for ECNL, Regional premiere league, etc. That would reduce the talent pool in the high school season significantly. While the non ECNL calibur players need to be considered as well, the significance of the high school sport would be greatly diminished without the best girls playing. I don't have all the answers on this however I hope that we make decisions that are in the best interests of the players and the sport - not the coaches.