Got a rules question ..a few weeks ago a kid from Hampshire was ejected from a game for cursing after he missed a shot...the referees and game admin made him leave bench and wait in locker room for entire 2nd half of game...yet last night at Mtp a kid was ejected after getting up in a kids face a shoving him, techs were given and he was booted...but he was allowed to remain on bench...not taking up for either incident just wanna know what makes one worst than other