Whatever mom. Completely clueless about softball obviously so the effort to debate is wasted. And, just for the record, absolutely wrong about being a mommy or daddy with hurt feelings (along with almost everything else in your posts), although I'm sure you will now be hellbent upon telling all your little buddies that this was coming from mommy or daddy just to justify your continued bad assumptions, attacks, false accusations, and critiques on the girl. Probably doesn't matter much since it is obvious that truth, facts, or objectivity doesn't take on much meaning with you. Don't currently have a child on the team. Didn't even begin to "tear into a good group of kids" and didn't even mention or allude to another kid on that team. Bottom line is that you should be proud that your purple and gold clique is bearing fruit. You've successfully excluded people to the point that they feel unwanted and undesirable to the "haves" and "in" and your propaganda has firmly taken root and is rewarding the insiders as intended and hoped for. Your real "coach" in charge is sitting behind the backstop. Daddy ball at it's finest. Responsibility? Never had a problem stepping up to the plate and taking ownership before the last couple of weeks when the whisper campaign that you are apparently right in the middle of began. You do realize that you and your buddies are actually using the exact same words and phrasing don't you? If it was basic, straight forward softball strategy with traditional language and word usage, you might find some similarities between totally unassociated people with independent thoughts. But that isn't the case here. Lock step, word for word phrases that aren't normal, traditional and are basic "mommy group in the bleacher" thought pattern. Oops. Didn't know it was that obvious did you? Oh well. Whatever.