VB71 hit it on the head - at 18 if you plan on plaing in college, you are pretty much set at the position you have dedicated your entire high school career playing at. A lot of time, effort and money has been consumed in marketing her to the next level. It was a complete slam as she had college coaches visiting her during tournaments and she had to sit back so another player could learn that position. It was an difficult decision she made, many tears where shead over her final decision. As parents, this was just as painful - this was our last opportunity see her play, as we will not be able to watch her in college.
Mr. Hargis - thank you for the compliment, she has received numerous offers and should announce her decision soon.
I will finish by saying this - a quitter is someone who does not have a conscience about the consequences; however, a person who leaves on principle - loves the game, but the core management or conduct is not being adhered to