Redrage:
I was a varsity basketball official too in Nashville. I have no problem when people criticized the calls I made. I’ve been in gyms where according the referees in the stands, half of my calls were wrong. It's a part of the game. If did have skin as thick as an elephant, I would have hung my whistle up a long time ago.
I also refereed a few "football matches" in Scotland, where there is a different standard of behavior towards the referees. In some cases, things have gotten out of control, especially during Old Firm fixtures (Celtic v. Rangers). The only difference is that the officials are 100% supported by the SFA and the police, if need be. In Tennessee, I've seen players spit at referees and nothing happened. I've seen parents run on to the field and attack referees and nothing happened. I've had a coach follow me to my car and put his hands on me and nothing happened. And if some sanction does come down, it's always appealed and everyone goes about their business like nothing happened.
The only league in Nashville that supported the referees and took serious action against individuals who assaulted referees was the Nashville Hispanic League. Which, in terms of skill level, is the best league in Nashville. I guess it because they have better appreciation of the game.
Inviting someone to become a soccer referee is NOT a poor excuse Redrage. Saying what you posted is nothing more than a cheap cop out. If you can to better job than the man in the middle, go out and prove it.