LadyAdmirals Rock,
what happened was you made a baserunning error and you were tagged out at home by the pitcher, who is about 5' tall. You ( BM ) got up and pushed their pitcher as you went back to the dugout. I go to Bearden and I was at the scrimmage. The CAK coach told his girls to not let anyone "push" them around. He told the catcher to protect her pitcher. Don't throw stones without the whole story. You pushed CAK's pitcher and the word Big, i think, was talking about height 6' pusher vs. 5' being pushed.
the coach for CAK, as their girls told me, puts stress on being a class team.