First, I have no son involved, and I am thankful for that. I have found incredible interest in the story as there are 2 sides so far apart on what is being told, and I don't mean the Wray family...it's all of the other stuff that has since come out. For you obviously your coach knew the correct approach and that was to be hard, and it got the desired results from you. That doesn't mean that's the approach you take with all players. If families/players appreciate what is going on over there, then all the best, but I've read a lot lately that clearly it isn't every or all of the families/players that think that. Just unclear on why there is such a difference of opinions.
My point about playing in college is in reference to your statement below. I just doesn't seem as if that's a priority for the families or the program.