Is it me or is it that now days it seems that players do not have the will and desire to play basketball. I remember when I was growing up my coach did not have to stay down our back every minute because we had the desire to play. Now you have parents complaining about this and that. The parents are holding on and sheltering this kids too long. If you dont want your chlid to get fussed at when he/she is doing wrong then basketball is not the sport for them. Trust me if your child wants to go to the next level, and be something. They need to do some soul searching, because as you move up it gets tougher. So stop being a baby and play ball. I tell my child that all the time. The coaches fuss to make you better, not to make you look like an idiot. You either take it or leave it. Like the song goes, "What dont kill you makes you stronger." Get a heart!