I am far removed from Oak Ridge and therefore have no business commenting on that situation specifically. However, the discussion interests me to the point of commenting on the broad issue of lack of responsibility throughout youth sports, exhibited by coaches, players, and parents alike.
#1 Many people will say that it was an honest mistake, not done on purpose. I can't agree more. Honest mistake, honest consequences. We learn best from our mistakes. If this guy is worth his salt, and not just another kid pushing the coach's buttons, I will bet my salary he never shows up Friday night without his cleats and asks to borrow a non-starter's shoes so he might play . That will serve him a whole lot better in life than having his picture in a yearbook photo that will surely wind up buried in attics all across the region in a very short time.
#2 Look at any other aspect in life. You don't bring your homework, no problem do it in class? You didn't do the work, don't worry here's your diploma? You don't have your license, drive on, get it later? No visa, right this way?. People will say those comparisons are ridiculous, it was just a pair of socks. My question: When do things start counting? When does it start to matter? When do you have to be responsible? Kids need to know.