For both CREE (who I think I played for at a Maryville camp...woo hoo, and liked very much as a coach) and Fireplug, isn't this an argument you should be having somewhere else? A lot of people read this stuff, and to be quite honest it sounds like a parent ( or other adult) is bashing a coach, which is way out of line especially in a public forum. If you guys have problems, grow up and handle them privately instead of publicly in front of players and coaches. I was under the impression that this was a message board for girls’ soccer, not whether or not a parent believes in the way a coach handles things. Also ... DIII (and I mean this is the nicest way possible) is barely a step above rec.