The only thing you can hope for is consistency within one particular game. If you can get that, consider yourself lucky.
There are good referees and bad referees. Unfortunately the boom of youth soccer and the money paid to ref games at various levels has caused an influx of people looking to make easy money.
When my son was eligible to get certified, he took the class, passed the test and got his uniform. His soccer playing schedule prevented him from ever really making much money at refereeing, but during a club state league game he was playing in, the AR was a gentleman that was in my son's certification class. According to my son, he scored lower than he did on the test a few weeks earlier. He blew several offsides calls against both teams. At least he was consistent!
Already in High School play this year we have witnessed games where physical play was allowed during the first half and the second was filled with whistles and yellow cards. Not to mention a wrongly assessed "cleats up" call, eh Canes?
We also had an incident where an opposing player told the ref to "go f*** yourself". After the flow of play the ref returned pulled out a red card, hesitated and showed the yellow instead. Our captain said as he walked by, "He tells you to "f" off and you just give him a yellow?" (OK, probably not the proper sentence structure or tone to address the ref, but he is 17 years old!) The ref turns and gives our captain a yellow. Both players could be construed as being disrespectful or dissenting, but there is clearly a difference and in most levels of play, the armband affords you inquiry with the ref and the captain in question has played at high club and ODP levels.
I realize refs are human but at least stay consistent within the game. They aren't going to see everything or call everything the way we want, but they can strive to be consistent at their calls and no calls.