"Thousands of kids go play college ball everyday who has never played in one exposure tourney"
MartianMan, you are Wrong with this statement. Kids DO NOT get college scholarships without going and competing in exposure tourneys. Once a kid is entering high school, if they want to be seen by college coaches and potentially start being recruited, then they MUST go to exposure events. These events are held during specific NCAA viewing periods.
Is it possible to get a scholarship without going to an Exposure Event? Yes, maybe possible but, not likely. I doubt you can name a single current college player that didn't play in an exposure event while they were in high school. (Maybe some JUCO kid or D-3 level player?).
One problem that a lot of kids and their parents have with exposure events is that they travel, attend, pay money, play and don't end up getting a scholarship. Keep in mind, what the word "Exposure" means. The skills and abilities of these players will be "exposed" to college coaches at these events. Sometimes they expose how bad or unskilled they are compared to elite players. College coaches don't recruit bad or below average players. Just because a kid attends an event doesn't guarantee getting recruited or a scholarship. But failing to attend and play almost 100% eliminates a kid's chances of getting seen or recruited.
Parents and kids shouldn't look to bash Exposure Events because the kid is not a good player & isn't being recuited. Fact is that most high school players are not good enough to play in college. And fact is, some people don't know that they don't know. Some people are delusional. That's the facts!