As a teacher , I have always loathed humiliating a student as a way of getting a point across. It tends to do the very opposite of what the perpetrator is trying to accomplish by totally destroying confidence, as well as self esteem. For some people it may spur a sense of defiant determination. But for most, especially teens, it can have devastating consequences.
I saw a post on here recently about what a coach is. And I was inspired by some of the answers. One in particular said (to paraphrase) that a coach was a person who was a dog when the team loses and a hero when they win. I also realize that a coach has a burden to carry that most teachers would shun from. There are all the parents, arm chair coaches, and players who think they should be playing. There is also the natural jealousy of the actuve players themselves. Ill admit, its not an easy job for the faint hearted.
But there are lines that a coach or teacher must not cross as professionals. And one of those lines is the humiliation of a player or student. I have personally seen this happen on several occassions. On on occassion one of the girls coaches confronted a player about a bad grade on a homework paper (not a major test), in front of the rest of the players, namimg her by name. In another instance, the head coach of the boys team forced seniors and juniors who were previously starting to play in a JV game, without announcement. I could go on and on.
My sense of right and wrong tells me that instances such as this are totally unnecessary and WRONG. As teachers and coaches, we have the obligation to build these student up, not tear them down. We should all expect 100% from them. But this behavior on the part of adults in an authoritave position crosses the line of decency.