First of all, walmart has no place in this discussion. (powered by high school sports) Secondly, mercy is not a weakness, its a virtue to be valued. Yes that sounds like I'm preaching but without mercy, there is no separation from good and bad. And children view the world through innocent eyes, yes, but they see the world as it should be, no shades of grey.
As for sports, if winning was everything than I wouldn''t play. Neither would teams like William Blount or Heritage. No disrespect to them, but they rarely pull a win, let alone against FHS or BHS. Even the team I play for won't make it past district, never have in awhile. So no, I don't play to win, I play because its a challenge. Will I cuss out every player and disrespect my coach? That's what the teams that "run u pthe score" do. They love to win, no matter what little class they show. So ok life is disappointing, its hard, we get it. But acting immature like a 6 year old as you put it, just to win? IS that what life is, beating up everybody else at whatever cost, because thats what you're saying. So I play because i love the GAME, the mentality of soccer, the beauty, not because I win. I'll take a loss as gratiously as possible, admitting the other team is better. But if a team wants to score for scoring sakes, that's not the mentality lf the game. It's like BigG said, try things to get better, work on off foot, or touches. Get better as a player. ANd that's my view on life. Not i want i want i want, which you seem to have. But rather step back from money and winning, and be who you think the best persion should be, whoever you look up to. That may be win win win for you, then so be it. But I prefer my child view, of what life could be, and that's not the individualistic view of what you preach.