Basketballmom11 you are so right. It takes total committment to play a sport now. I don't know but I bet that most of the girls that quit just were tired of the everyday committment that it took to be a total player. Sometimes one just plain gets burned out. There are times that the child wants to move on and the parents are the ones that just can't let go. Sometimes parents are living their dreams through their children. Then that is when the blaming the coaches for the problems that are at hand at that time. None of us want to admit that we have failed and don't want to be called quitters. The girls that quit just want to move on and live life to the fullest but the parents sometimes just won't let it go. What is good for one child is not always the best for another and then the fireworks start and the whole team is penalized. Wouldn't it be nice if we lived in a perfect world? But we don't and the sports world is the most cut throat world there is. Everybody wants to win and Everybody wants their child to be the star of the team. Rules are made and are to be followed. It is hard to see children have to abide by these rules but it is a life lesson. I hope all teams that are rebuilding have good role models in the team mates, the coaches, the school officials and the parents. The main objective is what is good for the ENTIRE TEAM and just not one player. It is really hard to make a committment like that and follow through with it for all the years that it takes. Some of the players start as early as 8 years old and continue through college and then on to pro ball. Now that is a TOTAL committment that any coach or parent would be proud of. Not all people are cut out to do that. I did not mean to get on a soap box. Hopefully the parents and fans of all the ball teams out there will look at the big picture and not just a select few that cannot make the total committment that it takes to play ball. Yes the few are out there and when they do surface teams are really glad to have them.