I just want to thank everyone for your input on this topic. This is something that goes alot futher than softball or any other sport. This is a problem that needs to be taken very serious and for the record, I hope this young lady can get back on the right path. I was not trying to put her in front of the firing squad. This type of behavior is something that I have been noticing everywhere for awhile. Just goes to show the way things used to be done, (ie, prayer in school and leaving the ten comandments on the walls) was not so bad. Again, I appreciate your feedback and concern.