I am not saying it is ok to curse a child, but this isn't summer league ball that is being played. Summer leagues can be very useful but they are a coaches worst nightmare. In Summer leagues or youth leagues all children get to play some amount of time, plus they will sometimes get a trophy. However, high school sports aren't that way. The kids don't have to play, and they don't get an individual trophy. One of the big things is that nothing is said when a coach/team is winning. All of these arguments come out when the coach/team is losing.