Not saying protective headgear shouldn't be looked into as an option, but i personally feel requiring headgear to be a bit on the extreme side. As is my understanding, the majority of posts in this topic have come from concerned parents. But since it is ultimately the players who are going to be affected by any new required equipment? As a player, I for one am against requiring headgear. Ilovethisgame, you talked about how your son fractures his skull. Have you asked him if HE thinks head gear should be required?
As a player who HAS had head injuries I think that head gear would be helpful to relatively few head injuries. In my years as a player, I have had 3 major injuries to my head. I got a concussion as a young player, roughly age 12, from heading the ball at the same time as another player. would head gear have helped? maybe. In the last two years, at high school age, I have had two more serious head injuries, neither of which could have been prevented by head gear. I had my nose broken in a physical play for a 50/50 ball and surgery was later required to realign my nose. I also recieved a concussion requiring a trip to the emergency room this year when a player off an opposing team kicked me in the head while i was still on the ground after a slide tackle. Had i been wearing head gear, no doubt it would have been my face or stomach instead.
Even looking back at these injuries I don't believe in requiring head gear. Injuries are a part of soccer. If a concerned parent worries about his/her son/daughter, they should have the option to wear headgear. But part of playing at a higher level is accepting that injuries do occur. It should be the player's choice to decide.