yeah, as a keeper myself, it always stinks having a high scoring game against you. but goalies have to keep the mindset that not all goals are their fault and to use the many shots as a good learning experience/training. i completely agree with your daughter's view. high scoring games may stink for the losing team and yes, excessive scores are a bit much, but they can learn from watching the winning team play. it can only make them better (unless of course they just give up altogether).