I don't really think its the players that take it personal. I believe the parents are the problem. The coaches deserve tons of credit, but all they get is bashed all the time. I have never seen a team this young win the conference. But when you ask one of these coach-haters what the coaches have done wrong, all they can say is "my son is mistreated" or "my son didn't play enough."
ur exactly right the parents are the one's who are causing all the problems, not the coaches they are doing there job and have done it very well.