I agree with bigdaddy, if the refs aren't "calling what you're used to" then cope. Back off a bit, move your feet not your hands and play. If Upperman beat you twice, the first time by 9 and the second time by 15, I doubt they would be scared to lose, much less scared to lose their ranking. You can't blame your losses on the refs, you lost because you got beat. That's it. Maybe these two teams will meet again at Region.