That is tough. It definetly happens...to a lot of teams. Sometimes it isn't always the players...it can be parents or even coaches. If team meetings are not resolving anything, than maybe someone else - outside of the team - could attempt to step in to try & cure the disease and not just treat the symptoms. It's a matter if your heart and your motives are right. Hey, if you have a great team, you really don't want to blow it with a bunch of "junk" going on. Sometimes just given a little time - things will work out. And than again, sometimes things get too dificult and they just won't. My philosophy is that there are times throughout your life when things are hard to swallow...but most of the time, you toughen up and do whats right and pray for what may follow. Hope things work out for you and your team.