SkinnyC, good to hear from you. I'm now gonna give you all my side of the story since I was there for the whole thing.
First off, no chant was ever said about the West player who died or got injured. When "Tito Brown" was said, it was the only thing that could have come close. And I know nothing of black roses being sent to West.
About the "fight," I saw and heard from a number of other people that Pee Wee was the one who started the taunting and pushing. It seems Jeff was just trying to stick up for each other. However, if the coaches also ran onto the field, that was wrong. And, yes, Scooter and Carsnson were the two ejected. I don't know if Pee Wee was.
So, to all you West supporters who think Jeff Co is a bunch of dirty, redneck people, think again. Over the years, West has shown just as much disrespect and classlessness. And what would the rivalry be without it????