One call here and there can mean a lot but we often put too much on that and not on 1]missing foul shots, 2]turnovers,3]failure to box out, and so on. It's always easier to put the blame on someone else and this displacement carries over to our children. You hear them say, "The refs this, and the Refs that." The vast majority of times, it should be, "If we had done this, or made that." Are not many games won or lost in the first or second quarter{if the truth be known}?