I can understand a parents frustration when their child doesn't see playing time. We all love are children and when we love something it is hard to see thier weaknesses. Has anyone else noticed your child ability to play? If you have had other parents come up to you, telling you how great your child is, and he never sees any play time, that is when I would investigate. I can tell you from experience if a child lacks aggression on every play, he will not see playing time. It has to be there everytime.....not just once.