I have been reading these for a couple of days myself, and I dont think that people have been bashing "Kids" I think they are just speaking out about everyone being responsible for their own actions.
I am a huge advocate of giving any one a second chance, and I dont even have a problem giving a third chance, as long as you are willing to give that same number of chances to everyone else involved. It just seems that in todays sports the better athletes get more chances, than other members of the team that may not have the same tallent. If this same instance involved a B team player or a freshmen, they would probably be used as an example and everyone would be happy(except that kid). A wise friend of mine always says " Hard work beats tallent, when tallent don't work" this is true in any system that is operated correctly.
There are kids on teams that finally get an opportunity to play when another kid is on suspension, then the suspended player comes back and he will most always go right back to his spot, which rolls that kid right back to the bench. Why dont we give that kid(the one that has not been suspended) the same number of chances that we are giving the one that got in trouble? There are many ways to look at every situation.
Kids are going to school to get an education and try to become active, productive citizens, athletics is a privelage that they get to enjoy along the way. Very few kids in our local communities are going to ever make a living playing sports, if they are very lucky, they may have athletics help pay for a portion of their college.
I for one will never bash a kid, I will however bash a system that does not give everyone the same chance, or maintain focus on the main reason they are there in the first place.