Coach I will tell you what I think. First off, I have run into a lot of coaches who DO NOT and WILL NOT allow girls to wrestle boys. Some just think it's an abomination of God himself to allow that to happen. I personally agree with you in full. But all I can tell you is good luck with that. I don't know what they do in other states, but I do feel a change is needed. If our state's girls program was better than it is, then I wouldn't complain. If we could offer more opportunity, more interest, and more matches for the girls then all this would be a moot point. But it's not. My advice would be to start a petition on http://www.change.org/ Gage the interest across the state and see what you come up with. Use the coaches email list to promote it and go from there. Other than that, I got nothing.