That is exactly the attitude or position that has gotten us into trouble today. We have a social responsibility to all kids and to the sport. What happens to Coffee or any other athlete either damages or helps the sport. Wrestling is supposed to be about the ultimate lesson in Sacrifice, Dedication, Respect, and Character. I see kids with no respect these days. In most cases they behave awfully. It's because parents are to busy until their kid gets disciplined and then they do everything to protect them from the punishment. We need to stand up for what is right in our community and sports. We all have an affect on one another. This is LIFE. Burying your head in the sand is irresponsible.