I don't think wrestling advocate was choosing either the adult or child side. Just pointing out the inequties in what is expected between the two teams...
However, it seems that you and others do not think that apologies go both ways or that parents should be held responsible for their children if they are children that are with your team.
So what is your school moto and code of conduct .." We will not hold our children responsible for nor apologize for their actions because they are children and we are not a Christian school and they allowed to act like heathens at their own descretion because they are children?".
Not exactly my point of view because I have been a supporter of your program for years, however, it is how your post comes across.