As an educator before a coach, I believe in giving every kid a second (third, fourth, fifth) chance. However, I also believe in holding young adults accountable for their actions. If the parties involved believe the punishment fit the crime and has been paid in full, then get off the kids back. On the other hand, call a spade a spade. I am confused by the idea that breaking the law was a "mistake". A mistake is messing up on a math problem in class. It seems to me that this was a poor decision, as I'm sure all the kids involved realized what they were doing is wrong. I'm sure Mr. Mang doesn't want to make excuses for his performance on or off the mat, so we shouldn't either. A lack of judgement might be a better way to describe what has transpired, not a "mistake". I do hope he has every opportunity to repay his family, community, and wrestling brotherhood. And I hope even more that he takes those opportunities.