They way I look at it is God give man our free will to choose. Once we make that choice, we must accept the consequences that come with it. For example, I had something really bad happen in my life back in February. God took that event and used it for good. He took me to my lowest point in order to get me to realize I need him. I gave my life to him. Now he’s working to restore what was broken. Hope that’s as clear as muddy water. Lol