This is sounding awfully "PC" to me! It's a shame! It is obvious very few on here have had the fabulous experience of your son being on a State Championship football team. It takes all those hours, practices, and sacrifices.....by the player and the family. It is a safe bet, other than a full-time coach, no one on this board has spent more time @ football practice than I have over the years with 2 sons. Many times I was the only "spectator" there. I probably have spent more time with some of your kids than you have. I did this because I wanted to share that part of their lives....a very important part of their lives. I assure you no vacation you will ever take can compare to Championship night in Murfreesboro. It is SPECIAL! Give your family the chance....quit complaining about time, taking them to practice, giving up family time, etc. You are just trying to justify the inconvenience to you! Guess what my family did on the best Thanksgiving Thursday of our life....we went to football practice! Hope I get to do it again with the Grandsons!