I think alot of teams have this problem. I do not know of the girl you are talking about, but I do understand how you feel. Sometimes the coach puts so much pressure on one player, that he/she feels what she is doing is needed and thats what he/she is supposed to be doing. Some players are babied, and thats what bothers me the most. When a so called "great" player makes a mistake, (more than twice) and the coach just pats him/her on the back and says "its okay" and if another player does the same mistake,(once) they get chewed out, and get put on the bench. I think no matter how good you are, you need disicipline. And then there are players who want all the glory! He/She is hurting the team, this is when the coach needs to step up and take charge. The coach needs to set boundaries, and if they are crossed, he/she can take a seat on the bench. BaSkEtBaLL is a TEAM sport.. ONE PERSON WONT TAKE YOU FAR!!