Yea Perfuct, I will discuss your seemingly bizarre, taboo-oriented man love for the "cat"! I am sure bearcat is busy scouting the often-spoken-of, yet still unobtainable fruit possessed by the "mommies of the purple Irish", while contra positively you seek a lonely post on this board! My unfurled advice to you is to seek out alternative websites to complete this objective, free of charge; while allowing the cat to enjoy his semi-retirement & futile attempts to seduce the mothers on Norwood.