Why don't you throw out some names so we can get to the bottom of this. I'd like more than this "anonymous" person. In fact, just send me an email if you want to so we can preserve this "anonymous" person's identity. Prosushi@gmail.com
And even if our admins told the refs what to call, if the refs listened, then that's their fault. But it's not any different from a fan yelling at the ref telling him to make a call.
Finally, from the way you have presented yourself on the boards, I'd say that you should be in church.