I purposely did not let my son play travel baseball at an early age. Started playing travel baseball at a bout 13 and still was not that much - then at 16-17 yrs old played with a high power travel team. I wanted him to love the game and be performing at his highlest level as he got older - when it counted - IF he wanted to go on and play in college - which he did. My middle daughter never played travel anything, but played 3 sports in high school all 4 years - volleyball, basketball, and softball - did not play in college. My youngest daughter/tall for her age - was approached at 8-9 yrs old to play AAU basketball - she didn't want to - didn't make her - again if she wanted to play she had to have the desire to play. She started playing AAU - her choice - at age 13, and played every summer till she graduated. She also "squeezed" in volleyball in high school. She is playing in college now. Both kids that played in college/on scholarship. Different strokes for different folks.... I put a lot of stock in that a kid has to want to play themselves because they want too - not anyone else.