HAHA!! I wish I had that advice four years ago!
You are lucky, didyou..., at least yours isn't pushing for an engagement ring! Rachel, my girlfriend, and I have been together for four years. Recently, her family has been "pushing" me into that commitment, and somehow her family got to my family, and now they are doing the same. So, we went shopping for an engagement ring last week in Knoxville at Kay Jewelers (the reason I am so specific is because Kay has a great sale going on right now for any guys who are interested). Now, keep in mind there are huge SALE signs everywhere, so immediately I am hooked. Then we get in there, spend about an hour trying to figure out which one she really liked, and left with nothing. Moral of the story: A $1500 ring marked down to $1299 is still too much money that will eventually go right down the kitchen sink.....literally.
Rachel wasn't very happy, but she will be one day. I have ordered the same ring from their website for almost half that price.