So are you saying you have never talked bad about a kid that quit your team? Or do you realize in your advanced years that maybe they had a valid reason? Did you run a one -way street program? You know, my way or the highway. (the answer is yes). What is the difference in the BA admin running theirs the same way?
When you say he was not considered, how do you know? Because he didn't get the job? Or do you have any knowledge of the situation from the Admin perspective? Pretty sure you know only SW side of the story. Problem is, like you said, it is a two-way street. BA has had a bit of turmoil over the last few years. Perhaps they are looking for a fresh start? It IS their prerogative to hire whoever they want to.
Loyalty IS a two-way street. What side of the street are those wrestlers without a coach on? They did nothing wrong.
Remember to look BOTH ways before crossing the street.