Since we're all stating our opinions, here's mine. Rockwood has every right to be upset with private schools in general because of the effect they have had on their program. I can't say anything about Grace "recruiting" other than they've been in trouble for it in the past. At any school you go to you will find kids from other towns whose parents sent them there for a variety of reasons. It happens everywhere. The only difference for GCA is that every kid was sent there.
I'll finish with this, with the exception of a few, every single person I've encountered at Grace has been nice, helpful, and encouraging. After our game it seemed like Grace fans complimented our players more than they did their own.