This question seem s to be pointed in the wrong direction. It is very self serving, however I will address a couple of points.
1. I will not allow my kids to play in a program that is not competitive. I will not raise a child in a 100% losing environment.
2. All regions are competitive, that is also why there are non region games. You can choose those opponents to help bolster your program
3. If you are losing all the time then I would take a look at your administration. I am talking about the ones that put these coaches in place.
4. Athletes are not the problem. There are a lot of athletes in each and every school walking the hallways that don't even compete. To me, that is a coaching problem.
5. If you want to play winnng football, you have to develop a winning attitude before you ever play the game.